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Hotheadedness can lead you to say things that might cause Copper brazed plate heat exchanger incredible damage to your relationship; or at the very least, start those spidery cracks that can make even a concrete-solid relationship start to crumble.In the heat of an argument with a partner, in a moment of high tension, we are all capable of making some very terrible mistakes.

 So, why would you ask your partner their opinion or advice on a topic or a course of action to take, then turn around and do something absolutely contrary to what your partner offered? Don't try to hide your actions, the truth always surfaces, and your dearest friend will be taken aback, if not just downright angry.

You both probably know that there is a problem and you should deal with it in an appropriate time and place. Yet, we know that there a places where one should not go in moments of wrath. Don't even ask for assistance if you're going to react in a way just to be wicked. Don't worry about the possibility of embarrassment, it will absolutely descend on both of you. Your lives don't need to be nakedly displayed to others. Arguing in public puts you and your partner on display much like the trashy couples seen on daytime TV. Neither you nor your partner should be playing to the crowd, especially by sniping at each other with snide remarks for all to hear. If you do ask, consider carefully what they have offered; don't cast it aside with a snort or a roll of the eyes.

Respect your partner, don't embarrass your partner, don't be immature - those few rules would help many a relationship. Stop immediately and adjourn for a suitable time and place. Rage and embarrassment just makes things worse and soon you may even draw a crowd that will find a lot of amusement in your cheap street show.